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FriendwithBenefits
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NoStringsAttached.com
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date.com
ChristianMatchmaker.com
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Looking for that special someone? The411-Dating.com was created to help those men seeking women, women seeking men, women seeking women and just about any other combination. We help by providing detailed dating site reviews and, unlike other review sites, detail membership info. As many people have found out in recent years online dating sites and dating services are a great way to help you find that special someone — whether it be just a friend, a date, a fling or for marriage. But many are worthless and full of paid models. We help you sort through the clutter and identify the best online dating sites for you.

To read more about any of the dating sites listed here, just click on the “Read Full Review and Info” links located at the end of each summary review.  The reviews included here cover the gammut – from dating sites that are more matchmaking to sites that provide adult personals for those looking for casual dating. Whether you’re married but looking or single, you can find a site to fit your needs.

Ashley Madison www.ashleymadison.com rating
Ashley Madison - Have an affair. Married Dating, Affairs, Married Women, Extramarital Affair knows it’s target market (married people) and sticks to it. It is simple to use, provides a discreet forum for its members, offers a private photo section that prevents anyone from seeing your photo’s unless you approve their access. It also has good, advanced search features and messaging capabilities. IM is available for a small cost. Ashley Madison also appears to be a ‘closed’ site – in other words only Ashley Madison members can search and see other AM members. Ashley Madison claims to…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
AdultFriendFinder www.adultfriendfinder.com rating
AdultFriendFinder Adult Friend Finder (“AFF”) claims to have over 16 million members so, as with Fling.com, this site has tons of members to meet. It is geared towards all types of people. Every type of person(s) or encounter you may want to find is likely here. Whether your looking to meet someone who’s single, attached or no-longer-attached; straight, gay or lesbian, bi or undecided; others who are into S&M, fetishes and/or bondage or simply someone who’s more… conventional;meet your soulmate or someone for a one night stand; face-to-face or…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
FriendwithBenefits www.friendwithbenefits.net rating
friend with benefits FriendwithBenefits has over 16 million members so, as with AFF this site has tons of members to review and meet. It is geared towards all types of people but mainly those loking for casual hookups. Every type of person(s) or encounter you may want to find is likely here. Whether your looking to meet someone who’s single, attached or no-longer-attached; undecided; or simply someone who’s more… conventional; you’re not likely to meet your soulmate here. More likely someone for a one night stand…   Read Full Review and Membership Information
BangMe2Nite.com www.bangme2nite.com rating
BangMe2Nite.com Casual Dating BangMe2Nite.com is huge – over 16 million members. It is geared towards people looking for casual hookups, not their soulmate. It has an excellent advanced search function so you can really filter down your results to a more managable level. BangMe2Nite.com also offers all the bells and whistles as well…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
NoStringsAttached.com www.nostringsattached.com rating
NoStringsAttached.com NoStringsAttached.com is part of the AdultFriendFinder network. This can be a good thing in that this site caters to married people looking for an affair and benefits from one of the largest networks on the web. It has an excellent advanced search form so you can really filter down your results to narrow your results to a managable level. It also offers all the bbell and whisles as well. In addition to searching for other members you can join a Chat room or groups. Overall its…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Perfectmatch.com www.perfectmatch.com rating
PerfectMatch - #1 Trusted Source in Online Dating PerfectMatch.com is geared towards singles looking for a soul mate. If your looking for a casual hook up then go elsewhere. It has a detailed “compatibility match function that will match you to members that should fit your personality and desires. It claims to have over 5 million members and is growing. The hundreds of thousands of success stories on PerfectMatch.com tell you everything you need to know about how quality of a dating site this is. They do a great job of preventing…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
date.com www.date.com rating
Every relationship starts with a date Date.com is one of the top legit dating or matchmaking sites online. They claim to be the best “free dating site” which is a little odd since you actually have to pay to contact anyone. What good is a dating site if all you can do is look at peoples profiles? They do have a ton of members and most appear to be…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
ChristianMatchmaker.com www.christianmatchmaker.com rating
christianmatchmaker.com ChristianMatchmaker.com is a great online dating or matchmaking site for Christians. They have a good membership base and most appear to be real people. The ability to search and review the full profiles of other members as a free member is a huge benefit and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Corazon.com www.corazon.com rating
Latino Dating Overall a good site for Latin singles looking for that special someone. It’s clean and doesn’t have a lot of “models” posing as members. You can review members before paying and decide if its worth your money…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Amigos.com www.amigos.com rating
Dating for Latino Singles Amigos.com is a site that caters to Latino singles looking for other Latinos to meet and, possible, date. It has an excellent advanced search form so you can really filter down your results to narrow your results to a managable level. It also offers all the bbell and whisles as well. In addition to searching for…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Casualfriends.com www.casualfriends.com/ rating
CasualFriends.com - the best dating site for people in relationships! Good, clean site. Doesn’t appear to be hugely fake as many other sites are. Relatively cheap. You get a lot for Free. Not much to complain about. Overall liked the site. Membership may not be as large as more well known sites such as Adult Friend Finders and Fling.com but…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Jewishfriendfinder.com www.jewishfriendfinder.com rating
Meet Jewish Singles Jewishfriendfinder.com is a site that caters to Jewish singles looking for people with similar values to meet and, possible, date. It is part of the DriendFinder network of sites and therefore draws from a huge database of members. It has an excellent advanced search form so you can…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
SexSearch.com www.sexsearch.com rating
SexSearch.com - Get laid tonight Overall we liked this site. Sure, it has its share of “cam” girls and other suspect profiles. But they have plenty of real, or “non-professional” members for you to connect with and… who knows. Of course if you think you’ll connect with someone who isn’t a professional and be having sex that night then you are in need of a reality check. If you want that the you should see about performing with a Cam girl or contacting an Escort service (although they don’t provide sex for any fees – just companionship and an…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Amor.com www.Amor.com rating
Meet Latin Singles - Join Free Amor.com is one of the top legit dating or matchmaking sites for Latins online. They have a strong database of members and most appear to be real (not models). The ability to search and review the full profiles of other members as a free member is a big plus…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Matchmaker.com www.matchmaker.com rating
Matchmaker - Begin Search Matchmaker.com is one of the better legit dating or matchmaking sites online (not a lot of fake profiles). They have a nice size database of members and most appear to be legit (unlike sites like Hornymatches.com and Fling.com). The ability to search and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Jewcier www.jewcier.com rating
The new way to meet Jewish singles Jewcier.com is one of the top legit dating or matchmaking sites for Jewish singles online. They are one of the best “free dating sites” for Jewish singles out there (although you do need to pay for more advanced features). They have a good membership base and most appear to be legit. The ability…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
CatholicSoulmates.com www.catholicsoulmates.com rating
Catholic Soulmates - Join Now CatholicSoulmates.com is one of the top dating or matchmaking sites for Catholicas online. They have a good membership base and most appear to be legit. The ability to search and review the full profiles of other members as a free member is a huge benefit and lets you decide…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
BigChurch.com www.BigChurch.com rating
Dating God's Way BigChurch.com is a site that caters to Christians looking for people with similar values to meet and, possible, date. It has an excellent advanced search form so you can really filter down your results to narrow your results to a managable level. It also offers all the bbell and whisles as well. In addition to searching for other members you can join…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Discreetsexdates.com www.discreetsexdates.com rating
discreet sex dates Discreetsexdates.com is targeted to those looking for discreet (can you say married people) hookups without ties. You can find a parter or partners to hookup with. Whether you’re looking for a sex partner or maybe something more, sex chat, casual chat, webcams, or more you’ll get it here. It’s free to join (no credit card required)…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
XXXMatch.com www.XXXMatch.com rating
Overall we liked this site. Sure, it has its share of “cam” girls and other suspect profiles. But they have plenty of real, or “non-professional” members for you to connect with and… who knows. Of course if you think you’ll connect with someone who isn’t a professional and be having sex that night then you are in need of a reality check. If you want that the you should see about performing with a Cam girl or contacting an Escort service (although they don’t provide sex for any fees – just companionship and an…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Blackdatingclick.com www.blackdatingclick.com rating
BlackDatingClick.com BlackDatingClick.com is one of the better legit dating or matchmaking sites online for black individuals. They have a nice size database of members and most appear to be legit (unlike sites like Hornymatches.com and Fling.com). The ability to search and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
LonelyCheatingWives.com www.lonelycheatingwives.com rating
lonelycheatingwives.com You can now sign up for a full membership plan for free for 3 days. A good way to actually get a real test drive of the site before you buy. The only negative (but not unusual) is that you have to provide credit card info to sign up. They claim this is to confirm age but in reality its so they can hopefully bill you after the trial ends if you don’t cancel. The site has been revamped since our first review and, while cheesy in many ways, is better. If your looking …  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Seniorfriendfinder.com www.seniorfriendfinder.com rating
Find Mature Singles looking to Date SeniorFriendFinder.com is a site that caters to the mature, over-40 crowd. Over-40 singles looking meet and, possible, date. It has an excellent advanced search form so you can really filter down your results to narrow your results to a managable level…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
BlackScene.com www.blackscene.com rating
BlackScene.com Overall a decent site for black singles looking to connect with like minded individuals. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members (use the $7.95 – 3 day trial). The free membership gives you nothing of real value. Although you can see some profiles of members but they were all over the place. If you are looking for black singles…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
ChristianLifestyle.com www.christianlifestyle.com rating
ChristianLifestyle Overall a decent site for christian singles looking to connect with other christians. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members (use the 3 day trial). The free membership gives you nothing of real value. Although you can see some profiles of members but they were all over the place. If you are looking for a christian single…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Lavalife.com www.lavalife.com rating
lavalife Overall this site is a good choice. The members appear real and you can join/search 3 different and distinct communities – Dating (more casual); Relationships (looking for your soulmate) and Intimate (those who are a little more horny). You get  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Match.com www.match.com rating
match.com It’s one of the kings of the dating / relationship sites, if not the king. They have a huge database of members and it’s growing. Really. Just listen to their ads. They certainly do advertise a lot which help them gain members, but that doesn’t mean they are the best. They have a good search tool and are a much more “clean” site. In other words they are selling relationships, not sex. You won’t find porn links or pictures on this site. But you may just…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Sex on the Side Club www.sexonthesideclub.net rating
SexOnTheSide They have a good intro price so you can test the full site without having to shell out the full fee. While it is part Adult Friend Finder this site is a little different. It has good search capabilities and some attractive women. Sure, it has its fakes (or professional models) but overall seems pretty good. It also has links to free video’s for those into watching some porn. Also…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Fling.com www.fling.com rating
fling.com This site has tons of members and everything you may want to find – singles, attached, married, divorced, straight, gay, bi, S&M, one night stands, marriage, free, paid, chat, web cams… it’s almost all there or there is a link to it. HOWEVER, there is no way to filter your search to narrow your results. With such a huge member database this is a nightmare. The fewest number of results I got in my area (using the most narrow of search criteria I could) was just over…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
HornyMatches www.hornymatches.com rating
hornymatches.com Pix on home page are models, NOT real members. But this site is huge and another one of what we call the “mother ship” – many smaller sites feed off this one or simply rebrand it. You should certainly find someone to hook up if your persistant, including perhaps a ‘pro’. But we doubt you’ll find your soulmate if that’s what your looking for. If so…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
sexyAds.com www.SexyAds.com rating
Overall a good site. It has lots of ads, albeit many are less then attractiver. But that’s what makes this site so good – it’s real. They don’t appear to use a lot of models, but rather real people. The basic (free) membership is pretty good. You can search (limited) and even contact other members via a “tickle” (their version of the “wink” other sites use). You can even send another member a message HOWEVER your message can only be read by the person receiving it if one of you is a paid “VIP” member. The same goes for messages…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Maturesinglesclick.com www.maturesinglesclick.com rating
mature singles MatureSinglesClick.com is one of the better legit dating or matchmaking sites online for the over-50 crowd. There aren’t a lot of fake profiles (models). They have a decent size database of members in its target market. The ability to search and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Singleparentclick.com www.singleparentclick.com rating
Singleparentclick.com Singleparentclick.com is one of the better legit dating or matchmaking sites online (not a lot of fake profiles). They have a nice size database of members and most appear to be legit (unlike sites like Hornymatches.com and Fling.com). The ability to search and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
FlirtingStudents.com www.flirtingstudents.com rating
flirtingstudents.com FlirtingStudents.com has the best collection of lonely students studying abroad who are looking for fun on their free time. They are mainly looking for discreet dating experiences while away from their home country. These students want to experience other cultures first hand and also experience life on different continents. We respect their privacy and ask you to do the same…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
CollegeSexDates.com www.collegesexdates.com rating
collegesexdates.com College Sex Dates is a bit of a misnomer. It isn’t just about college girls and guys looking to hook up. It claims to be one of the largest adult dating and swingers sites. You will be able to find new parter(s) to hookup with as you will soon meet the hottest singles and wildest couples on the internet. Whether you’re looking for sex chat, nude webcams, steamy swiger action, group …  Read Full Review and Membership Information
CasualFriends.com www.CasualFriends.com rating
CasualFriends.com - the best dating site for people in relationships! Casualfriends.com is for those folks in a relationship looking for a little side action. If you don’t want to share your personal information for your casual search, this site won’t require it. You can search for intimate dating partners without sharing any information you feel is private. Once you get to know your casual dating friends, you can decide just how much or how little you want to share. You can search from hundreds of individuals just like yourself looking for a short-term, NSA relationship in your area. They have an online chat feature, casual dating blog and…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
BlackChristianSoulmates.com www.blackchristiansoulmates.com rating
BlackChristianSoulmates Overall a decent site for black christian singles looking to connect with like minded individuals. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members (use the 3 day trial). The free membership gives you nothing of real value. Although you can see…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
JSingles.com www.jsingles.com rating
JSingles.com If you are looking for other jewish singles this isn’t a bad place to try. But I’d sign up for the 3 day trial first then see if it’s worth it for you. Overall, a decent site for jewish singles looking to connect with like minded jewish singles for friendship or more. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members (use the 3 day trial). The free membership gives you nothing of any value other than basic views…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
LatinaRomance.com www.latinaromance.com rating
latinaromance.com If you are looking for Latino singles this isn’t a bad place to try. But I’d sign up for the 3 day trial first and see if it’s worth it for you. A decent site for Latino singles looking to connect with like minded latino’s for friendship or more. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Blackbook.com www.xxxblackbook.com rating
xxxblackbook.com “It’s the “”biker dude”” of dating sites. It’s got a good layout with a good members menu located on the right of the home page. Lots of members as well and you get access to their member posted home made sex tapes – for free (they post their featured “”member video of the week”” prominently displayed on the home page). With the paid membership you get…”  Read Full Review and Membership Information
PerfectMatch – Black Singles www.PerfectMatch.com/BlackDating rating
Meet Black Singles 180x150 This sub-site to PerfectMatch.com is geared towards Black singles looking for a soul mate. If your looking for a casual hook up then go elsewhere. It has a detailed “compatibility match function that will match you to members that should fit your personality and desires. It claims to have over 5 million members and is growing. The thousands of success stories on PerfectMatch.com tell you everything you need to know about how quality of a dating site this is. They do a great job of…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
CatholicMates.com www.catholicmates.com rating
CatholicMates.com A decent site for Catholic Singles looking to connect with like minded individuals for friendship or more. You can narrow your search results with an extensive list of search parameters for premium members (use the 3 day trial). The free membership gives you nothing of any value other than basic views of members. Although you can see some profiles of members but they were all over the place. If you are looking for other catholic singles…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
PlentyofFish.com www.plentyoffish.com rating
Plenty of Fish Other review sites will knock this site for one reason – its free and the site doesn’t pay anything for referrals. We don’t care. Our goal is to provide real, honest reviews so you can make a good decision. This site is becoming more and more popular by the day. It’s membership is not as large as the other big boys but it is gaining ground. The site is totally free to use which must…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
HouseWifeSexSearch.com (this site is now DiscreetSexDates.com) www.housewifesexsearch.com rating
discreetsexdates The site is your basic sleazy dating site. Decent search …  Read Full Review and Membership Information
SexMatchDating www.SexMatchDating.com rating
sexmatchdating.com Offers adult dating services, free adult web chatting, videos etc. We are the leading place to find perfect adult online dating partners, whether you want to just have a day’s fun or whether you want to have a long term adult relationship.   Read Full Review and Membership Information
OnlineBootyCall.com www.onlinebootycall.com rating
online booty call A common theme with many of these sites is the high volume of messages you will receive as a “free” member designed to entice you into a paid membership.***. This site, isn’t much different – plenty of messages from hot, horny, Ms. America types prior to signing up as a paid member, very few from Ugly Betty afterwards. Actually, the messages we got after paying weren’t all that bad, and some were pretty good – no “”10’s”” but a couple 7 or 8’s to go along with the 3 and 4’s. But… OnlineBootyCall does have some real content and If you go in knowing the deal then this…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
LonelyWives.org www.LonelyWives.org rating
lonelywives We have gotten a ton of emails from women claiming to be married, highly interested in our profile and horny. Problem is they either are the dumbest women on the planet or auto-generated frauds trying to get us to upgrade our membership. If they had read our profile (which they usaully say they did) then they would know that we stated in the very first line that we were not paying for a membership and therefore couldn’t reply to messages. They needed to either include an alternate way to contact them or reference the note we posted and we’d…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
MeetaWife.net www.MeetaWife.net rating
adultdatelink We have gotten a ton of emails from women claiming to be married, highly interested in our profile and horny. Problem is they either are the dumbest women on the planet or auto-generated frauds trying to get us to upgrade our membership. If they had read our profile (which they usaully say they did) then they would know that we stated in the very first line that we were not paying for a membership and therefore couldn’t reply to messages. They needed to either…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
Other “Date Link” sites www.adultdatelink.com rating
adultdatelink.com Note – we did not sign up for all the Datelink sites, just the “Married Datelink” site. But since all the “Datelink” sites appear to be the exact same we can’t see why they’d be any different. So we’ll use our review from the “Married Datelink” site review for the remaining datelink sites as well. They could be different, but experience tells us otherwise…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
MarriedLonelyWomen.com (this site is now “LonelyCheatingWives.com) www.MarriedLonelyWomen.com rating
lonelycheatingwives.com Although they try and appear more sophisticated they are a sister site to www.lonelycheatingwives.com and you will ultimately be directed to the lonelycheatingwives.com site. Even though we signed up to try this site we could never login and were always directed to a jumbled page for www.lonelycheatingwives.com and it also triggered my ZoneAlarm’s “SpySite” blocker. Turning ZoneAlarm off didn’t help. They never could “fix” the technical problems with our login and eventually we cancelled the membership to this site and were…  Read Full Review and Membership Information
PersonalDateFinder.com www.personaldatefinder.com rating
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Passionmatches.com www.passionmatches.com rating
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Blackfling.com www.blackfling.com rating
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MeetLocals.com www.meetlocals.com rating
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AmateurMatch.com www.amateurmatch.com rating
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TrueAdultDate.com www.trueadultdate.com rating
trueadultdate Coming soon  Read Full Review and Membership Information